Dr Alduan Tartt

Have you voted yet? Go Vote Early! Don’t procrastinate on the most important election of your life. What are you waiting for? Long lines? This is the ideal time to vote if you want to make sure your vote counts and avoid the stress of not voting because you got tired of waiting 5-8 hours on Tuesday. Also, the records will show that you did not vote in 2020, forever. Don’t embarrass yourself because you did not plan to vote early. We need this election and you must vote to get this country’s soul back. #GoVote #VoteEarly

This weekend, we had the BLESSING of participating in a vow renewal ceremony to honor our wedding day and marriage. Quick question: What do you and your spouse do to honor your marriage annually and what song was played at your wedding? We were joined by couples from all over the world at A Weekend For Love who are all fighting for stronger marriages. ... You know what they say, If your marriage is not getting stronger, it is getting weaker. We were blessed by Dr. Roland Sigler & Coretta Clark Sigler in guiding us through a vow renewal, ring exchange, and foot washing ceremony to renew, re-energize and reinvigorate our marriages. We honor marriage and enjoy serving marriages all over the world! We encourage you to celebrate your love, connection and future together for a lifetime. God Bless!

Honestly, I am humbled and amazed at what God has done for A Weekend For Love Virtual Marriage Retreat. Couples cannot help but be empowered with the roster that has been assembled. It's happening TOMORROW (Oct 23-25th). Last change to be apart of what over one hundred couples are doing this weekend! Listen...We have three psychologists, a sex therapist specializing in tantric massage, a top 10% financial advisor, a personal chef, a mixologist, a vow renewal ceremony, millio...naire entrepreneur couples, an award winning primary care physician specializing in men's and women's top rate health/wellness, and a husband/wife celebrity trainer couple to keep you both in shape. Come get this for your marriage and/or engagement. Learn more and join us here www.aweekendforlove.com

Being able to make up with your partner after a bad argument is a skill every spouse must learn to keep the relationship and/or marriage thriving vs. going into survival mode. Every couple has unfortunately had a bad argument or regrettable event that has cost them valuable good vibes for an argument that most of us don’t remember or even care much about later. Here are the 5 steps every couple must use to make up and fully process bad arguments to prevent them from becomi...ng life long traumas that’s kill the connection, safety and trust in a relationship and/or marriage. This is a just a taste of what couples are in for at A Weekend For Love online marriage retreat.

Oh Lord. I have to tell the truth for my brothers who are afraid to tell you this. The worst thing you can do to a husband (or boyfriend) is to not accept his influence on your life. We don’t expect you to listen to everything we say but we do expect you to listen to to every GOOD thing we say, especially if it is in your (or the family’s) best interest. Men are really simple. We need influence and shut down without it. Why do you think we get married and have kids (it’s no...t like it is fun all the times). It takes a lot out of you but it is worth all of it when we feel appreciated, listen to and respected. Guys, we also have to be more positive with our words too but this post is for the guys because I rarely speak up for us.

In marriage, it is important that couples repair quickly and well enough to move towards forgiveness. Why? When we are hurt and a partner does not try to repair, our survival instinct kicks it to "care less" and/or "take care of myself" and/or "disconnect". It essence, we go "numb" because you cannot hurt a feeling I no longer choose to feel. Ouch! It can do a lot of damage to a relationship or marriage. Why? You can get used to emotional distance as a coping style which lea...ds to the "married roommate" phenomenon you see becoming so common. That is why it is important to develop skills for repairing and forgiveness. It sounds good but do you know exactly what to say and do after having a conflict with your partner? Can you pause your negative emotions and repair first (not always waiting on your spouse to go first) sometimes? Do you know what to say to avoid going back into the argument again? I would love to give you resources and show you how...

One of the things couples yearn to feel is to be truly supported by their partner in marriage, family, and personal goals. One of the many topics we will cover at A Weekend For Love Marriage Summit for is how spouses can better and fully support their spouses dreams and do it evenly. This way, both spouses feel empowered and supported. Teamwork makes the dream work! Let’s face it. It’s difficult to manage the demands of marriage, family and business goals at the same time! T...hat’s why marital skills are needed with couples who are doing it and doing it well. The rewards are worth it because you can thrive! We are excited about couples learning at the highest level to empower their relationships and marriages. You really can have it all: a great marriage, a healthy family and make money pursuing your personal goals. Check us out, learn more, share with other couples and we’ll see you Oct. 23-25th.

A healthy marriage is always in a state of growth. It’s very similar to money, health and self-development. If you are not growing, you are dying. Otherwise, my fellow couples, you are settling. Settling is a disease mindset that the best couples avoid like the plague. A Weekend For Love Marriage Summit & Virtual Retreat @aweekendforlove is for couples who want to grow in ALL SEASONS. ... This is for thriving couples who want more. This is for couples who want to upgrade (better communication, love-making, more money, better dating, better teamwork, less fighting and more building dreams). This is for engaged and newlyweds who want to hips strong and long and avoid the 50% divorce rate (actually 65% if this is your 2nd marriage). This is for couples in 911 phase and need some professional yet fun and thorough to shift the relationship/marriage ASAP. Come learn from the best! Get your money up, quality time up, communication up, recovery from regrettable events up, coordinated life dreams up, balance up and just upgrade on all levels. We have a luxury couples gift box for couples who register ASAP. We need time to ship to you prior to @aweekendforlove. See you there! #marriageretreat2020 #marriagegoals #powercouples #onlinemarriagecoaching #premaritalcoaching

Imagine that there are two couples (Couple O) and (Couple P) arguing. Both couples have the same argument numerous times that often ends in conflict with no compromise or ability to let the issue go. However, one couple is able to work through it and grow stronger but the other couple crashes and burns. What is the difference in their approach? Couple O is Optimistic and Couple is Pessimistic and it makes a world of difference. Let me know if this matters in your relationship? Comment and read more https://www.betterhusbandbetterwife.com//marital-masters-v

Couples: Have you ever attended a marriage retreat? Do you need a virtual marriage retreat due to the stress of Covid-19? Comment and let me know! Consider this your OFFICIAL invitation to @aweekendforlove virtual marriage retreat and couples retreat. 5 Reasons Why Couples Should Attend This Marriage Retreat: ... 1) To create and maintain a WINNING marriage. 2) To avoid being a statistic 3) To focus on your marriage/relationship for once 4) You know you need to improve 5) You need some better relationship skills 6) You want to spice up your love life! 7) You know that all marriages must get stronger. If you are not growing, you are declining. 8) Your relationship/marriage is in need of a BIG intervention (husbands- this will get you out of the doghouse) 10) You want to learn how to make money as a couple! We could list reasons all day! What’s your reason and see you soon! #marriageretreat #marriagecounseling #marriedlife #newlyweds #familylife #couplegoalslove #blacklovematters #christianmarriages

What do couples who are "friends" and have "fun" do better than couples who struggle with connection? Tell me your thoughts on how to keep fun and friendship in your marriage. Also, read my latest blog post: Marital Masters vs. Marital Disasters: Part 2: How To Have More Fun in Your Marriage & Have Amazing Friendship Admit it, we all know at least onethe couple who appears to really enjoy one another’s company. You know, they are the couple at the dinner party who has effor...tless conversation, sets up one another’s stories and jokes and looks at each other as if they regularly make love even with three kids. What is their secret? Is it just organic chemistry? Read more: https://www.betterhusbandbetterwife.com//making-marriage-b #betterhusbandbetterwife #marriageworks #marriedlife #marriagegoals #MarriageLife #blackmarriagemovement #BlackLoveWins #marriagehelp #marriagetraining #marriageadvice #divorceprevention #avoidingdivorce #marriagecounseling

Can you believe it has been eleven years together @meccamooretartt? We shared our vows six years ago in front of our friends & family. Our family has expanded, we have traveled the world together, been on many adventures, settled down, ramped back up, overcome challenges (like you trying to convert me to Vegan lol), celebrated holidays, opened up businesses together (Lord help couples who work together lol) and taken care of one another when one of us was down. Marriage has... been and is a beautiful ride and I look forward to ALL the years God gives us together and will continue to be grateful for every moment we share together. I have enjoyed our getaway weekend together where we could reconnect, re-energize and re-commit to our marital goals. I will not tell the world that we also attended @trafficsalesandprofit entrepreneurship conference this weekend too and worked on our business (entrepreneurial couples feel us) and had to turn the camera off a few times (all work and no play lol). Praise God for having a spouse who gets you and has the same drive and balance of work and play. I look forward to renewing our vows at @aweekendforlove this month and planning our next adventures. We also just had a conversation about how to date more with kids, work and decided that more weekend getaways are a must. Shout out to the baddest wedding photographer in the game @taunhenderson and to all the couples who make it work. No amount of success is worth personal failure at home. #betterhusbandbetterwife #aweekendforlove #anniversary #TheTartts

Join me for the @bronnerbros hair show panel today on living a healthier lifestyle. We must protect our minds and bodies from the negativity, immorality and stress of this world so we can have PEACE OF MIND. How do you do that though? I’ll provide professional tips from a Christian psychology perspective and how you can apply peace in the midst of the storms and stressors in life. I also have to talk about Black men and suicide being on the rise. Black men must learn to emote... (talk about emotions) versus shutting down, acting out and allowing depression and anxiety to dominate inside out. Let the pain out so you can better control it. You can control what you talk about but what you cannot talk about controls you from inside. So, pain, abuse, trauma, failure, inadequacy, depression, anxiety, feeling like a burden, etc. all attack within your mind. However, if you talk about these natural feelings you can sort through them and gain mastery over them. We cannot counteract the negative feelings you refuse to let out Black men. Let it out and master your emotions. We must teach our boys and men how to do this like we teach them to dribble, rap and dance.

Have you ever gotten frustrated after you tried to get your spouse/partner to listen to your needs and they get defensive, mad or turn the conversation back on you? Let me show you how to "prime" your partner to listen WITHOUT GETTING DEFENSIVE https://www.betterhusbandbetterwife.com//how-to-get-your-s